Serendipity

A very happy, happy new year. I know I could have been more creative about it, but sometimes simple is the best way to be; and could-have-beens are some of the most futile words on earth, perhaps.

Okay, that was totally random.

No resolutions really for me this year. I’ve always been a failure at keeping resolutions unable to really stick to any…so I decided to give it a break this time. The last year was pretty good, so much more than all I dared to hope for, though towards the end it brought me the deep forever loss of no less than three people very dear to me.

Maybe I should just try to sum up all that I learnt this year. In no particular order:

• It’s good to stand up for something you believe in, and the world (or the part of it that you are trying to convince) will eventually see your point if it is right.
• “Getting lost doesn’t always happen by accident.”
• Always remember to back up your data before getting a hard-disk formatted. :/
• People forget your talents/traits unless you keep reminding them. By acts, not just words.
• When mom tells you to do something about some hideous pimples, better do it.
• Falling into reveries before an important exam isn’t a very smart thing to do.
• It might be just a little seemingly casual thing/ word that might erode your trust in somebody, or somebody’s in you.
• “Each day is the first day of the rest of your life.” But you just can’t keep starting afresh each day…u gotta begin, then proceed. You get nowhere by just beginning.
• It’s easier to not make/ not keep promises. But in the long run, it’s better to know in your heart that you made, and kept.
• Nothing is absolute. It’s all relative.
• “Be anything but obvious”, if you like. But then don’t blame people if they interpret you some other way.
• However you keep claiming that “The sky is under my feet…”, most of the people would still say you are upside down.
• Calling a person’s demise “their birthday in heaven” lessens the poignance, but only just a tiny little bit.
• No matter how much you keep saying you don’t want any; it’s always a great feeling to have somebody genuinely care for you.

I have so much to do, prove in this year. To myself, to parents, to other people who matter…And this year I’ll be turning 18, like BestFriend reminded me during our conversation last night. Finally, being an adult officially. (Though, for him, “getting entry in clubs” is the most looked-forward-to part of the deal )

Anyways, I have tremendous expectations and apprehension-mixed hopefulness this year. May The Great Being Up There grant all of us peace, love, happiness, prosperity, strength to pursue our goals. Shalom Aleichem. Have a great new year and thereafter.

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Some of the best moments in life…

(feel free to add to the list )